About Us

Our Approach

A safe community for alternative lifestylers in the Sioux Falls and surrounding area. Monthly munches to meet locals in the lifestyle. A place to learn safe techniques and skills. Whether you’re kinky, poly, LGTBQ, all the above, or just curious, this is a safe place to explore.

Our Story

Having been in the BDSM Lifestyle several years now we have come to appreciate having a like-minded community. Dr. Monkey Man and redgarter have lived in both South Dakota and Florida. In Florida they became active in the local community. Joining the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club as members, they soon became volunteers and then part of the management team. Giving back to the community is their passion. Teaching and providing a safe place in which to learn is their goal now that they are back home in Sioux Falls, South Dakota.

Meet the Team

Dr Monkey Man

Dr. Monkey Man’s biggest passion, besides his wife/sub, is the violet wand. While in Florida he did the monthly Violet Wand Demo/Classes at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club.



redgarter not only helped Dr. Monkey Man with his demos but she helped run the office. Greeting new members and welcoming them into the club. Giving the orientation and tours to new members. She also worked with the management staff with marketing by helping with social media, creating graphics and posting event


Before sending redgarter a friend request you must go through Dr. Monkey Man first.

Just one way to keep the creepers away.

You can contact any of the team at dragonstailalc@gmail.com