We talked about negotiations at this months munch. This is one of the most important aspects of the lifestyle. You have to be open and honest and disclose almost everything. We can never assume the other party knows what our limits are or what will triggers us. This goes for tops & bottoms. Both need to be aware of pitfalls that can ruins a scene. Keep in mind there can always be things that neither knew existed that crop up and slam us. The available document we shared is just a guideline. It does not include everything. But it can help break the ice and get you talking and thinking about what you like, want and need in both yourself and your partner, not to mention the scene you are wanting to have.
Stay tuned for Negotiations 201 coming soon.